Doing Own Business or Work... Which is better?

If i ask whether do you like to do your business or do you like to work for monthly salary in an organization what do you say? Its totally based on the way how you see both the option. 

If someone ask the same question from me my answer would be the first option which is doing my own business ( But currently i am working for monthly salary). The reason for me to think like that is, whatever the effort you put or whatever the hard work you do for thee business that's for your own. You can get the return as per the hard work which you put on. Also you will feel very happy for the money which you get from your own business because that is because of your own effort. 

When you do a work for monthly salary there is no satisfaction. Sometimes i get a feeling why we are working so hard for someone else. If i put this hard work for my own thing i can perform much better. ( This is my own feeling) 

Everything has there own pros & cons. Doing a work is safe. No risk. End of the month you will receive a fixed salary & you can plan your stuffs accordingly. But starting up a business it not easy. you need enough capital to start according to the business plan. Business always has a risk. Same time high risk high return.

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Down to earth people

It is very hard to see really down to earth people nowadays. Specially people when they get money, power etc they forget who are they and they also a same human being as others in the society. Sometimes they fail to to treat others as a human.

In day to day life if we see in our office specially who are in high management hardly we can see down to earth people. Most of the times even if they carry a small bad they want someone to carry that. I am not saying it is wrong. But the other hand why he cannot carry his own bag? ( If really heavy and needed help then fine). All that is because of his position right? I have seen some people they really act as they don't care others. They think there are the only smart people. They forget their past.

I don not like to see this type of people. Same time i have happened to see some people who are really wealthy in money, position and qualities everything. They are very polite and they know how to treat others. They never keep it their head that they are rich or in high position. Act very simple & polite. Like to meet that type of people. When you such nice people you feel from the bottom of the heart that you wanna respect them. 

But if you see a person who don't know to treat others in a good manner & who always lives on behalf of money & position, you do get a good impression or respect heart fully.

 

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Travel Attractions

Other than going for trips when we travel day to day we can see so many things and so many people in the road. But hardly we get attracted towards something and hardly something will make us to turn back and see again.

yesterday when i was going back after work around 7.00 pm i happened to see a very cute incident. I cannot exactly remember the place but somewhere in the road they have put some benches in the road side. There i saw one old couple (should be around 60's) sitting there while holding hands. They were laughing and looked like they were talking something very interesting. Hardly we can see some old couple being close like that and talking happily. It was so nice to see and i felt happy when seeing them.

Moving forward same place in another bench i saw another two old male friends. They also looked very old and still smart.One person's arms touching the other person's shoulder. They were talking to each other with gentle smile in their faces. They looked happy and relax. I was so happy to see such old people being so.

i wish if ever

yone could love each other like that even when they are old.

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Social Media Marketing

A media revolution has made media more democratic, with power shifting from big corporate to individuals through social media. However it is not just about amassing many fans, but driving the right fans to make the right decision, thereby boosting the organizational goal.

Social media is one of the unavoidable thing nowadays. In personal life or business life every one using the social media. It plays a crucial role in everything. Specially Facebook, twitter, LinkedIn, Four square, youtube etc.. 

In personal life we use the social media to interact with others closely specially with the friends and relatives whom we cannot meet daily basis.

But when it come to business social media is one of the important thing every businessman should consider. Whatever their business it is better to have a facebook page, twitter page, etc in order to enhance their business. 

Restaurants, saloon, real estate or what ever the business it can be promoted well through this social media if we do it in a right way. It can reached in an efficient way with everyone. 

If you are interested, for more information regarding thing please contact me.

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Is it Crazy or Not???

This is one thought or i would say a wish, which i have from small days. But only thinking and i have never taken a step to implement it.

I like to help others. Specially the needy people. When you go for a elders home or often children's place and when you see them them we also feel so happy. That is a different feeling. But with our expenses always it is difficult for me to help them.

One doller, rupee or dirhams. What ever just one in their currency is not a big amount to any person. For example say individually if we can collect 1 from 1000 person, that thousand will be a big money for a needy person. We can find colleges or offices with 200-500 person easily. So if everyone can contribute just with 1 coin we can do so much to the society.

I don't know how possible is this. But i think if we make the initiative and if everyone cooperate we can do it well more than what we think.

In Sri lanka we have so many needy people.Than collecting 1000 from Sri Lankans rupees 1000 from another currency would help much better. For example say if i can collect 1000 dirams or dollers as the way which i stated above i can do a good service to the needy people in my home country. This is just a wish. Please share your thoughts regarding this.

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If you get a good spouse nothing is beautiful than the Marriage Life

Male or Female i would say marriage life is a turning point in both life. It is like a new life. Until that we have been brought up with parents and siblings.. We are mostly dependent on our parents before marriage. With the marriage we are starting our own new family. The rest of the life we have to spend with the spouse. That is why i said if we get a good spouse nothing is beautiful than than married life. Most of the good times in life we will be spending with our spouse.

Same time if you did not get the right person then the married life will become hell.

I am so blesses to get a good spouse who like the way i am, who understands me well and who loves and care me always. He is not only my husband. If some one ask me who is my close friend it is no one else than my husband. We both used to share everything. No hidden matters. Even if some guy flirt with me, without any fears i will first tell my better half only. Because he knows who i am and he will never suspect me.

We were friends before and then became lovers. At start both families opposed to our affair and they did not like. But later on they were ok. We made all the wedding preparations alone by our self. ( It was nice because no one their to find faults or give advice in what we do. We both decided & planned it in a way what we want ). Since that day everything we do together by helping each others. We never fought even for a single matter. I hope it will be continued life long.....

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Small and a meaninfull story

This is one story which i read & thought to share since it has a good meaning....

One day, the farmer's horse ran away, and all the neighbors gathered in the evening and said ‘that’s too bad.’
He said ‘maybe.’
Next day, the horse came back and brought with it seven wild horses. ‘Wow!’ they said, ‘Aren’t you lucky!’
He said ‘maybe.’
The next day, his son grappled with one of these wild horses and tried to break it in, and he got thrown and broke his leg. And all the neighbors said ‘oh, that’s too bad that your son broke his leg.’
He said, ‘maybe.’ The next day, the conscription officers came around, gathering young men for the army, and they rejected his son because he had a broken leg. And the visitors all came around and said ‘Isn’t that great! Your son got out.’
He said, ‘maybe.’

Lesson: you never really know in which direction progress lies. Life unfolds not always as we expect it to.

In life when some incidents happening, at that time we feel happy or sad. But there are times in future for the same incidents  we react in the opposite way. Somethings which feels good now will hurt us on a later day. So most for the things "may be" answer will be a good one. Because we do not know what will happen in the future.

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Laundry is the only thing that should be separated by color.

'Laundry is the only thing that should be separated by color.' 

How true this sentence and what a good meaning. When laundry we should carefully handle the colors. If not colors might get mix to each other. specially with white clothes.

But in real life this is totally opposite. Most of the time when laundry people will not handle the colors carefully. But when its come to Human they used to separate them by color. Color gives only the appearance to a person. nothing else. But most of the people think color is a big thing. They used to separate the people with the color. The people who treat the black people in a bad way think being white is a grace. They never think if they were born as black if a white person insult them how they might feel that time. Always we have to think how others feel. if somethings hurts us probably it will hurt the others too. We cannot take back the word which came out from our month. We cannot take back an action what we did. Before doing something have to think twice.. thrice..

All human has same red blood. White people & black people do not have separate color blood. As humans every one should stop separating people with the skin color. 

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Managerial Skills and who can be a good leader

What is managerial skills?

The ability to make business decisions and lead subordinates within the company. Three most common skills include

1. Human Skills - The ability to interact and motivate.
2. Technical skills - The knowledge and proficiency in the business and how to perform.
3. Conceptual skills - The ability to understand concepts, develop ideas and implement strategies. 

Above will be the simple answer and definition for the managerial skills.

Now we will see the meaning of those.

Human Relationship Skills

As per my knowledge human skill is the utmost skill out of all. This will also be called as interpersonal skills. Basically it is an ability to work with people and how you manage them. It helps the manager/leader to understand, communicate, get new ideas and work with colleagues smoothly. Also helps the managers to lead, motivate and develop the team sprite. A good team sprite plays a crucial role in the company growth and success. Human relationship skills are required by all the level of management. A manager can be well talented in education wise. But still he cannot achieve what he wanted without good human relationship skills. he should know how to talk to fellow members, how to motivate them, How to appreciate them, etc...

Conceptual Skills

It is the ability to see the organization as a whole. It includes analytical, creative and initiative skills. It helps the manager to identify the root cause of the problem and solve the problem for the success of the entire organization based on the situation.

Technical Skills

Technical skill is the ability to perform the given job. It helps the managers to use different machine and tools.Also it helps to use various procedures and techniques. Lower level management required more technical skills because they are in charge of the day to day operations.

Above are the 3 basic skills and we can include the rest also in the above skills. But if we look individually there are some more we can categorize. Which are good communication skills, Administrative skills, problem solving skills, Decision making skills etc...

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Pope Francis - Holy Thursday Celebration

This is the first Holy Thursday for Pope Francis after he elected as Pope. As most of you all aware last Thursday was Holy Thursday and  the pope Francis washed the feet of 12 young offenders including two girls and two Muslims at a Rome prison.

The Holy Thursday ceremony is usually held in a basilica in the city center and commemorates the gesture of humility believed to have been performed by Jesus Christ before his death to his 12 disciples at their last meal.Popes performing the ritual have usually washed the feet of priests.Catholic traditionalists are likely to be riled by the inclusion of women because all of Jesus' disciples were male.

The pope knelt down, washing and kissing the young prisoners' feet in the first Holy Thursday ceremony of its kind performed by a pontiff in prison, and the first to include women and Muslims

Most of the people has appreciated it also some has a fear whether he might one day be willing to open the priesthood to women. ( This is because he washed 2 females feet )

"I do this with all my heart because it is my duty as a priest, as a bishop. I have to be at your service. I love doing it because this is what the Lord has taught me," the 76-year-old Pope Francis. 

As per an article in a news paper , this was the first time a pope had washed women's feet, pope Francis had performed this type of ceremony in his native Argentina many times before becoming pope including in jails, hospitals and old people's homes.

My personal view is what he did was awesome. Pope means a catholic leader. First of all he should be an example of other priests. I think Pope Francis is doing that. It is true that Jesus Disciples were male. But it does not mean that Jesus didn't like to have female disciples or we should not include female in holy Thursday rituals. We have to move on.

I am Sure Pope Francis will be an excellent leader and he will do a good service for all the communities. I wish all the very best for him for a good service. All The very best & may God Bless you Pope Francis.

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TAJ MAHAL IS A SYMBOL OF LOVE? or NOT A SIMBOL OF LOVE? - FACTS ANALYSIS

 

Taj Mahal is a magnificent monument which stands at the heart of India Agra.Also it is one of the most interconnected word with Love. Every body in the world knows Taj mahal as a symbol of love and Shahjahan build it for Mumtaz. But most of the people do not know the story behind it.

If go bit deep to to this story there are lot of confusions in this. First of all as per the history mumtaz was shahjahan's 4th wife. Some indicates that he had nothing more than the status of marriage with his other wives. Anyways shahjahan built it after Mumtaz died and She died In Her 14th Delivery ! 

Until that part it is okay and I have no confusions. But if we search more about this couple some books stated that Mumtaz is Shahjahan's 4th wife out of his 7 wives and he married mumtz's sister after she died. This was happened almost 400 years before.So we do not know the truth. We can analyses only based on the historical stories. 

In case if he married Mumtaz's sister after her death then how can we say there was a true love ?? Confusion arising at this point. We cannot measure the true love by the monuments what he build for his wife. It should be shown  in the way how he lives as well.

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You must be the change you wish to see in the world.

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world"

This is one of the popular sayings by Mahatma Gandhi. When reading such a quotes most of us will say ya its a good one. After that we will forget about it. If thousand people read this do you think out of 1000 how many people will make it to practice.

If every individual start to practice this 99% of the problems in the world will diminish. We do not prefer when other person telling something bad for us or to see a mistake from others.  But how many of us make a time to think whether we are doing the same..... if we see a mistake from others we will feel it as a big mistake. But when we do the same it will look like a small thing. That is the nature. But we should not leave it as it is. 

May be daily we can spend just 2-5 minutes to think what we did not like from others today. Which made us sad or annoyed. Then some incidents will come to our mind. Then the most important part is, afterwards we have to apply those to us and have to see. If something made us angry, annoyed or sad have to think whether have we done the same any day. Of course at least one of those things we would have done for sure anytime. Then we have understand on that day the person whom we did so also would have felt the same.. 

If all the individual start to practice this we will not do mistake by knowingly. When we do a wrong we will have the guilty feeling.

Whoever reading this, if you think this is true and if you liked it please spend few minutes of your precious time ( it can be while traveling, or when in the bed or when in the washroom) to think about own mistakes and to correct it.

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Do you prefer to eat an Ice cream in the mid night?

Now time is almost 12 am and is cold too. I just finished enjoying an ice cream. For some people it might sound ridiculous when I say I had an ice cream in the mid night. But I hope most of the Ice cream lovers will agree with me. There is a separate feeling when you have ice cream in the mid night when there is a cold climate too. Rather I would say there is a kick.

Mostly everyone will remember ice cream on sunny days. But I prefer always J.The person who discovered ice cream should be awarded.

Though we can enjoy the taste of ice cream any time, below I have stated some occasions which ice cream can add an extra value.

v  In a silence place while going for a walk with someone special ( Ice cream cone could be most suitable in this situation )

v  On a rainy time it is nice to eat while getting wet ( Specially when drizzling )

v  When you feel very tired and not interested in any food.

v  In the beach  ( Specially after having a candle light dinner)

v  Last and simply anytime….

There is place in Dubai (Cold Stone) where they serve ice cream in a very attractive manner.I admire the way they serve.  Please check out the below link for more information.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WqBr8qWTxP8

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Gossiping Vs Men

Normally Gossiping is a most interconnected word with woman. From long time in the society normally everyone believe (I would say everyone tells) that Woman are the once who gossip always. People say putting something in the notice board and telling to a woman both are same …

But I do not agree with this. I never say woman do not gossip. We do. As human we all have a habit of gossiping. I believe no one is excluded in that. (If someone saying I never gossip that is a utter lie)

But if we take in general everyone say mostly woman only gossip and guys do not gossip much. I will never ever agree with this. As far as I know and as far as I have seen mostly gossiping people is men. Also generally woman talks about others clothes or beauty. (I am not saying we do not speak about other matters. But mostly). But men they always gossip about some serious matters about others. (Mostly something related to others life).  It is not in one country. In general almost everyone is same.  Also it is not only the people who lives in urban areas or uneducated people. Well educated people also do the same. Specially in the offices you can see lot of this type of human behaviors.

It is not every men or woman. But if we see the majorities I will thoroughly say it is who gossip most are the men not woman.

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Can you imagine these desings are made from what??

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